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I grew up with the constant push to go to law school!
If I was to choose without external influence, I would have chosen to be a professional dancer, a chef/baker, an actress or a writer.
I would have been happiest dancing and writing.
I excelled in everything literature.
I loved love literature, and I was a star literature student.
I devoured all the assigned readings and more. I could not wait to write papers about every book we were assigned: my analysis of the characters and the themes in the books. During literature test/exams, I wrote pages and pages of analysis. No surprise, I am a writer.
I went to college as a Pre-law student.
I went through my first life crises in college; I lacked a sense of direction...
I was confused. I just wanted to dance!
I declared Pre-law
I contemplated switching to Political Science.
Then I thought about International Relations.
I dumped Pre-law, and declared Elementary Education (My parents would not have it, they so wanted the best for me and they knew It was not where I wanted or should be. In my heart, I was determined to make them mad, so I endured 3 semesters of the major, because I wanted my parents to deal with it. VERY STUPID MOVE) :)
I contemplated Theater and Dance.(I wish I did it, but I survived by joining a dance group)
Then I thought about Creative Writing. (I wish I did it)
I declared Psychology as a major alongside Elementary education.
I dropped Elementary Education and declared Mass communications (Public Relations).
I relegated Psychology to a minor, then I dropped it all together and declared Communication Studies as a minor.
I finally graduated after five years with a degree in Mass Communications (Public Relations) and a minor in Communication Studies.
Moving on to graduate school...I went in to study Public Health Marketing and Communications and graduated with a Masters in Public Health Promotions. Mind you, I applied to both Counseling and Public Health programs, but chose the latter over the former.
I enjoyed school. However, I had a hard time settling down on a major, because it was not culturally appropriate to do what I wanted to do. I guess my preferred choices were not financially wise either unless I hit it big. Dancer, Writer, Chef and Actress!
I am back to that place I always should have been...I am starting with writing!
It all worked together for good...I see it everyday!
It all worked together for good...I see it everyday!
Beloved, You are Loved Absolutely!

Glad that you now have an outlet to write! Too many people end up unhappy for choosing what their parents want them too. My mom did not want me to major in theater. So I didn't, but I still pursued acting on the side. She loves to see me in show and now regrets telling me not to major in theater.
ReplyDeleteThanks. I know too many people who are unhappy at what they do, and I never want to be that person again. I have been that person for years. Ironically, the one thing my dad encouraged in me was my desire to write. He would not hear a word about my desire to dance or act...but he was okay with writing. I love that man. lol
DeleteThis is interesting. You really had one exciting time with your academics. Thank God, Blogger is an outlet for your writing now.
ReplyDeleteI really did. It is still a journey. I have always had an outlet to write, I just never thought I could do it professionally. Blogger is a good platform also.
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